IMO and IME, all this complaining about complaining kind of begs the question, doesn't it? I mean, sure, every denomination has its problems. But what if (just asking) the UPC, and perhaps other Apostolic fellowships, has a much higher than average number of, say, abusive and overbearing pastors? You have to admit, it does seem to be targeted by ex-members more than a lot of other denominations (far as I know). Maybe there's a reason, and maybe instead of bashing the bashers, the UPC could look into the reason behind it, and fix things. Just sayin'.
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