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Originally Posted by Cindy
How did y'all get a marriage problem out of her post? And why put that kind of guilt on her?
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There certainly isn't enough details given to given any intelligent advice outside of hypotheticals.
Having said that, being out of the UPC for as long as I have but still remembering the culture like it was yesterday, I do pick up on certain key words. Church attendance and appearances play SUCH a huge role if neither are measuring up then one is thought to be "backslid". I would ask anyone in such similar situation as the poster, man or woman, would you accept going to a different church if it meant you spouse was actually willing to GO to church? The parallel question is, do you care about your spouses walk with God or do you care more about appearances in wanting to be seen with them by people you know as the happy family unit that you so desire?
Just responding to a scenario as it may appear in a text book.