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Originally Posted by Timmy
And sensible. 
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Maybe I'm a bit too open minded... but a book titled, "The Gift of Sex", helped to shape my sex ethic with regards to marriage. In the book, the authors distinguish between "lust" and "fantasy" and actually express that some degree of "fantasy" is healthy for some couples if it brings mutual enjoyment and fulfilment.
Of course, there are other equally valid opinions. In the end... you have to be true to yourself and live as you feel led by the Spirit regarding what is acceptable before your God. You only answer to Him anyway.
As a husband... I mean... what do you do if you get home from work, and before you take off your tie, your wife walks up to you, smiles, and says, "Mr. President... may I have an urgent word with you?" lol
Would a decent husband divorce her?
Squash her mood and rebuke her?
I can only speak for myself because... I know Presidents can be very busy people, but I might make time to discover what this intern considers "urgent". lol