Since the heart is only known by God, how can we be SURE?

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

Not really, because I'm just thinking outloud as the thread progresses, but I'll give it a shot.

Here's the scripture:

3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. 4 Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. 5 For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a man is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.[a] 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God's wrath comes on those who are disobedient. 7 Therefore do not be partners with them.

Those are some common issues for non-Christians and Christians alike. In a perfect world a true Christian full of God's spirit wouldn't wrestle with any of the above, however - - it's not a perfect world. I know Christians that walk the walk and talk the talk, YET they are involved in one of those above - - - so, do we judge them and say, oh, man you talk foolish talk or you are greedy, so to enter the kingdom of heaven, I need to separate myself from you.

I think we all would like to think that people that deal with this are just non-Christians or unrepented people, but what saddens me is I'm afraid we sit in church with people dealing with this stuff every Sunday.

The part that stood out to me was, "Let no one deceive you with empty words..."

So actually, it goes back to what you were talking about - trust. You can forgive, but the trust factor must be rebuilt. That takes time and willingness on the part of the offended. Going further, you can be totally willing, but you must be wise to not be deceived. It just takes some pain and some time.

I'm sure you have to take that on an individual basis.

I remember my older sister used to lie so much during her High School years. I can't remember much about that now, but I remember that you couldn't believe her and it took years for anyone to trust her again.