Sarge,
Are the folks who have been abused able to get over it or do they rehash it and build up bitterness by talking about it over and over? I can understand how venting will help and talking to others who have experienced the same makes one feel less isolated but in the long run does it help? I think it is sad when some folks get stuck in that rut and never move on.
Here's some excellent advice given by Rhoni on the subject. http://www.apostolicfriendsforum.com...7&postcount=16
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