There have been 5 years of my posting on these forums;
1. FCF
2. NFCF
3. The island
4. AFF
Many of you have voiced opinions in posts to me that you value my transparency, others think I let my feelings fly too much, and others think I have issues with men and authority figures.
Now is your chance to tell me what you really think...go for it. I am listening.
Blessings, Rhoni
Has it been that long?
I started posting on GNC then FCF, NFCF and some others that bridged to AFF.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe you are asking "can people forget" what all you have posted in the past and just take you for face value now. Is that correct?
Not really that you are forgettable or unforgettable - - just some of the things that have clouded you from the past, can those things be forgotten.
Great post OA!
That is correct. Those things that I have posted in the past that others have taken offense to, or were a reaction to an attack, perceived attack by another, or just my own personal past baggage/weight; can those be forgotten? If I am to forget those things which are behind, then it is imperative that others let me by not bringing past posts that have been months & years in my past be brought forward.
I really don't care if you remember me...just some of the messages I have left that are beneficial. I hope to leave a legacy of God's grace and mercy to me and my family, and to all of yours.
I agree with Bro. Easty that you are one of the best to apologize when you feel you need to!
Advice to Rhoni (not Rhonda) - forget the posse - - they are long gone and there's no one here that is intimated by you.
As a remnant of the so-called posse, I would like to offer an opinion.
While I have often disagreed with Rhoni, I do not dislike her.
I admire her gumption and fortitude in pulling herself up by her own bootstraps when life dealt her a bad hand.
We will never see eye to eye on a lot of things, but the battles we have fought haven't been personal, at least to me, but then I am a man and can compartmentalize.
__________________ "Then answered Amos, and said to Amaziah, I was no prophet, neither was I a prophet's son; but I was an herdman, and a gatherer of sycomore fruit:
And the LORD took me as I followed the flock, and the LORD said unto me, Go, prophesy unto my people Israel."
There is so much we can say about her. She is straightforward... love that! She is honest about where she is in life... love that! She does not compromise... we may not see eye to eye on everything but I love this part about her so much! She is transparent... thats what makes her Rhoni and one of the things I appreciate the most.. because thru her experiences I have learned a whole lot.. we are a lot more alike than she or some will ever know!
A friend.. first and foremost. Rhonda has been here for me thru a lot over the past couple of years. On the forum first she came to my defense a few times and she always let me know she cared. We both have had our share of drama and mine was also pretty publicly known but she showed me she cared and that no matter what was happening that someone would listen to me. When we finally were able to meet in person for the first time even though the meeting seemed too short I felt a kindred spirit from the first second I walked into her home. Her family and she accepted me instantly and made me feel so welcomed and it was so nice of them.
When my mom passed she listened.. she came and sat with me and my children at the funeral home she showed she cared she loved and most of all... she was just my friend at a time when I felt I was totally alone.. She was there..
No matter what Rhoni has done or said on this or any other forum.. there is one thing that we can all agree on.. when someone has a need she is there for them! That is one of her most precious qualities. She is indeed a dear person and one I am honored to call Friend.
Sister it aint your feelings that you need to let go of.... I stumped my toe the other day, it felt terrible. I mean it really hurt. (that's what you call a feeling).
Its the incessant PSYCHO-BABBLE that is driving me nuts. Here is a hint, your OFFICE is the place where you Psycho-babble people. NOT AN INTERNET FORUM.
You want to fix people who are all screwed up in their heads? great, wonderful, fantastic. Get them to come to your office so you can get paid. Free advice on the internet however is making this perfectly sane person about half nuts!
On the subject of feelings.... what a crock. most of what you say (like the rest of us) is OPINION NOT FEELING. There is a difference. and honestly my opinion is worth no more than yours or anyone else's. I am tired of the wishy washy namby pamby everyone is suffering Freud fraud your passing out around here. Not everyone is weak and snivelly.
Here is some Psycho-babble for ya, life can suck sometimes. So suck it up and be a man! (Even if you are a woman). GET OVER YOURSELF AND DEAL PEOPLE!
This incessant drone about feelings is so limp wrested that it makes me want to hurl about half the time!
And one more thing, dearest child of God. Rhoni, my sister in the Lord. You've divorced your husband. He is out of your life. Gone forevermore. No longer a source of your pain. so PLEASE STOP TELLING ME WHAT A HORRIBLE PERSON HE WAS WHEN YOU WERE MARRIED! I don't know the guy, I don't really have any reference point related to him. Its YOUR issue, NOT MINE.
There. I feel better. Carry on.
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There have been 5 years of my posting on these forums;
1. FCF
2. NFCF
3. The island
4. AFF
Many of you have voiced opinions in posts to me that you value my transparency, others think I let my feelings fly too much, and others think I have issues with men and authority figures.
Now is your chance to tell me what you really think...go for it. I am listening.
Blessings, Rhoni
The island? Whazzat?
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Hebrews 13:23 Know ye that our brother Timothy is set at liberty
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