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Originally Posted by Sister Alvear
I really cannot see a man and a woman living in the same house (sharing a house) terms and being above others talking about them. While it is true to the pure all things are pure it is also true we should do our best NOT to give someone a reason or doubt to talk about us...
Think how many times people may have said things about anyone of us and we were not guilty...talk hurts so the writer of old admonished us to shun from the appearance of evil .So if we KNOW ahead of time people will talk then why do it?
At the same time I know if two ladies (godly) live together to share expenses people sometimes still talk...so the tongue will always have something to say...but we can do our best to live above reproach.
If I shared a house with a lady I would do my best not to be together at every moment...like I have seen some... People would know I have my interests, my life...etc...
It is sad that people seem to always imagine evil but it is the society we live in...
I am a people person and to think I would have to be alone is terrible...I would want someone around even if it were just for the noise...
Both of my sisters live alone and one keeps a television on all the time just for the noise...
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Absolutely True. This has been an awesome thread with some very useful information. The personalized posts were absurd, but I love the fact that all of us can agree that this is not a good idea and for obvious reasons.
Those who truly know me, understand I am conservative at heart, and many times I say things to play the devil's advocate role and get the discussion and minds churning. It really isn't always about me, even though many of you think so.
OneAccord had an excellent post and is truly a gentleman and understands the roles of husband and wife as they should be lived out according to God's word.
Blessings to all,
Rhoni
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