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Originally Posted by ILG
I like what you say here AQP. It is very hard for a woman to be ravishing when her husband is looking at porn! In a way, this seems like saying if a woman just gives her husband what he wants in the bedroom, he won't do such a thing. I think it goes way deeper than that. That may not be what was meant but it can make a woman feel more like a nursemaid in the bedroom than a lover.
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Agreed, and well put. Yet, as scripture puts it, marriage partners are not to defraud one another, to cause one to sin. We are to complete each other, it is not either are, it is both. Most men find it difficult to fulfill all the emotive needs of the wife, most ladies find it difficult to fulfill all the physical needs of her husband. Herein, lies the challegene, life makes it harder for each to fulfill the other's needs, but increases the need for ones own needs to be met. It can be hard not to be selfish, such is the nature of fallen humanity.
The above is a very general statment because of course ladies have physicall needs and men have emotive needs.
Wisdom and understanding is desperately needed for all.
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