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Originally Posted by Edward Anglin
Sister, are you sure people who post this sort of garbage really want help?
Or are they just stirring up strife and trying to garner sympathy?
I think it's the latter.
Did this poster contact the church board? Did she share the situation with people who could actually make a difference?
How is posting this story here gonna help her?
Plus, how long ago did this actually occur?
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You must not have read all of my post - I did say if this is someone that is just wallowing then let that be between them and God. I am not a preacher bashor - Most of the men and some women in my family are preachers/pastors - some I am sure you probably know because they are spread from Maine to Spain

and they are wonderful, good people. But I also am not blind to the fact that people can get hurt deeply by pastors I have a lot of family members in a church that are being hurt almost every day by their pastor and call me constantly about it and although I feel a lot of the things that pastor has done is way out of line I keep it to myself when talking to them and just tell them to keep a good attitude and pray every day for the situation and God always works it out if they keep the right spirit. I am all for supporting ministry but if someone needs to talk about something they are going through then they should be able to get on a forum and talk about it without getting bashed and like i said if you think they are wallowing - let God deal with them.