Why would a Pastor do this to me ?

[Margies3]

Originally Posted by rrford

Ain't that the truth? It's also a great place to spread the message "My pastor is a moron!"

I might think that she was trying to spread that message IF she named her pastor. But this person has gone to great length to make sure that her pastor is NOT named. She's not attacking the pastor personally. She's stating what happened to her and asking if it has happened to others and if so how to get past it to move on. That's been my take on what she's said as I've read thru this thread anyway.

What I don't understand is - if we all agree that there really are some pastors out there who have no business pastoring a church then why is that when someone has an experience with one of these pastors and is hurt, we attack that person? Have they done something wrong by choosing to be in the church under the pastor who shouldn't be pastoring? Is it their fault that the guy is doing wrong??? Isn't that kind of like blaming the pastor when he has a saint who goes off in sin?