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Re: Ministries for women porn addicts
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Originally Posted by Jeffrey
Please. How many HAVEN'T done this?
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I would be very upset if I found out my husband was fantasizing about someone else while with me. Anyone who has done that needs to tell God they're sorry, and focus on their spouse. Why would you think of another person when you have someone right in front of you? 
I asked my husband about it, and he answered very honestly. Respectfully, I won't share his complete answer. Basically he said that we can't control what thoughts pop into our heads, but if something inappropriate does come up, you have to take control over that and think about something different. (e.g., your wife instead of a pornographic image)
My husband said: "If I need visual stimulation, I need to just open my eyes...." 
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abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
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