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Originally Posted by ILG
I think sex can be like chocolate. It is not good to overeat chocolate so you limit yourself. However, sometimes your brain says "chocolate.....chocolate.....chocolate..." and if you say "No! Bad!" your brain screams louder. Sometimes it is better to just allow yourself some guilt-free chocolate so you don't go nuts and go hog wild laden with guilt later on. Our brains and minds and bodies were built to enjoy things within a fencework. We all need to figure out where the fence lies. However, sometimes when someone outside yourself says the fence is very small when it is, in fact, bigger, you feel guilty when you are inside your own fence but outside theirs.
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Very interesting idea.
So the way to overcome something is not to suppress it, but to allow it in moderation?
Does this work with all things?
If I'm at work, and everytime I see the secretary my brain thinks "sex, sex sex" -- what does guilt-free "chocolate" look like here?
If sin really something that if you feed it a little, you will be satisfied or does it constantly want more?
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