mirth you stated that you did not intend for this thread to become a debate,but that is exactly what has happened you say that their are things that you are struggling with coming on to this forum you are opening yourselves to many others opinion when the only opinion that matters is god.you will always find someone who is going thru some of the same issues,if you struggle with standards take it before god and wait on him ive been on this forum for about 1 week now read alot i hear many people bashing upc regardless the issues they have or what one may think i do not believe this is pleasing to god ,by any means listen to god miryth he has your answers
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Originally Posted by Mirth1981
Hi...I don't intend for this thread to be started as a debate. I would just like to hear stories from those that have left the UPC.
Specifically...What made you finally decide to leave? Was it difficult? Were you able to find a church that wasn't "easy believism" but yet one that didn't enforce extra-biblical principles where you could go and worship God in your own way? Do you have any regrets? Anything you wish you had done differently? How is your walk with God now? Do you still suffer from self condemnation and feel brainwashed?
I have been really struggling in my spirit lately. I'm terrified of leaving the UPC because of the repercussions it will cause in my life (and for my husband, who is a minister). Yet I know feeling this way just reinforces the fact that I need to "get out." I still believe in oneness, baptism, and the Holy Ghost. What I don't believe in is man made "standards" that create an environment that breeds judgmentalism and pharisetical saints. Also every church I've been in...I feel controlled....even manipulated. I can't do that anymore. But I don't know how to get out.
I hope this is okay...and that I'm not breaking any rules by posting this. I have been reading this forum lately, and it seems like there are many very balanced people on here. This seemed like a good place to go for support.
Thank you in advance.
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