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Originally Posted by missourimary
If it helps any, it seems like most of the time when I go into a situation that was familiar to me years ago, I fall back into the same patterns even though I'm a much different person now. At a class reunion, I became the shy listener that I was in school. In the same way, around Apostolics someone might use a definitely Apostolic phrase, dress to standard, carry themselves a certain way, know certain key verses and react a certain way to them, know all the songs, react differently than a visitor to altar call (big clue), or simply not be surprised by the worship style. Those would all be clues to an observant person.

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This is key here. So even though I grew up in the UPC church, if I always look like THIS, they will never know I ever stepped foot in one.
Actually, this is sorta/kinda my reaction (inwardly) now when I see some of the stuff I took for granted for so many years.
If your a lady, it may help to throw out this as a reaction.