on a serious note... I would bet your wife's love language is "words" and trust me, she wants to hear it just to be hearing it. When words is your love language, you just love the way it sounds coming from the one you love... just give the woman what she wants to hear... add some affection with the words, at least incorporate it into the voice... and you will have happy wife.
and I agree with Aquila about women being more verbal in general.... I'm a big talker... and my love language is words.... gosh, and there is nothing more frustrating than being in a relationship with someone who refuses to show affection with their words or show you how much they care by words.... actually kinda hurts... *sniff sniff*
Hey ForeverBlessed, how are you? I have been around the block a few times & kinda know how things work in a relationship.
I just see the gumour in what women say at times, for example, in the same exchange with me, she said something else.
She said, "No, you tell me you love me!" I said, "you tell me you love me!"
Hey ForeverBlessed, how are you? I have been around the block a few times & kinda know how things work in a relationship.
I just see the gumour in what women say at times, for example, in the same exchange with me, she said something else.
She said, "No, you tell me you love me!" I said, "you tell me you love me!"
Reminds me of the story of the young girl gushing over how much her boyfriend listened to her as she talked and talked and talked all the time. Then he tells the story of how her laughing is like angels dancing on clouds.
After they had been married for a number of years, she is complaining, “He never talks. I can’t get him to say a THING!” And he is saying, “Good grief, she laughs like a hyena on crack.”
Reminds me of the story of the young girl gushing over how much her boyfriend listened to her as she talked and talked and talked all the time. Then he tells the story of how her laughing is like angels dancing on clouds.
After they had been married for a number of years, she is complaining, “He never talks. I can’t get him to say a THING!” And he is saying, “Good grief, she laughs like a hyena on crack.”
My wife helps out in the kitchen when we have food & fellowship after Church & I usually visit the kitchen and grab some food to taste for "quality control" purposes & find my wife with her hands busy preparing food.
I then go & place my hands on her waist in a romantic hug, (but I know she can be extemely ticklish) & she starts squirming & screaming & I start singing,"La cucaracha" & the other sisters are laughing, meanwhile I get the dirty look.
My wife helps out in the kitchen when we have food & fellowship after Church & I usually visit the kitchen and grab some food to taste for "quality control" purposes & find my wife with her hands busy preparing food.
I then go & place my hands on her waist in a romantic hug, (but I know she can be extemely ticklish) & she starts squirming & screaming & I start singing,"La cucaracha" & the other sisters are laughing, meanwhile I get the dirty look.
It's all worth it!
You had to mention kitchen! My husband called at lunch and said he would be home tomorrow. I said, "Oh, I was hoping I didn't have to clean the kitchen the rest of the week since I don't feel well." I'm praying they change his schedule and he comes home Saturday. I don't feel like taking care of him this week. Not so romantic.
You had to mention kitchen! My husband called at lunch and said he would be home tomorrow. I said, "Oh, I was hoping I didn't have to clean the kitchen the rest of the week since I don't feel well." I'm praying they change his schedule and he comes home Saturday. I don't feel like taking care of him this week. Not so romantic.
You sound like my wife!
Before we were married my wife to be mentioned that she would make breakfast for me everyday!
That didn't last forever & when I remind her of that statement she made, she says that she needs, "notarized statements of the two or three eyewitness's of that statement being made"
Otherwise, it didn't happen!
You had to mention kitchen! My husband called at lunch and said he would be home tomorrow. I said, "Oh, I was hoping I didn't have to clean the kitchen the rest of the week since I don't feel well." I'm praying they change his schedule and he comes home Saturday. I don't feel like taking care of him this week. Not so romantic.
Now PO, I feel sure he won't come in in a romantic mood! He'll want some good cooking..... That's what he's been missing! Don't ya' think?
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You sound like my wife! Before we were married my wife to be mentioned that she would make breakfast for me everyday!
That didn't last forever & when I remind her of that statement she made, she says that she needs, "notarized statements of the two or three eyewitness's of that statement being made"
Otherwise, it didn't happen!
LOL! I never promised I would do that! Actually, I never promised anything.
I just didn't know how hard it was to take care of a man. When he said he would never do dishes or clean the house, I should have thought long and hard on that. Now it's too late.
and you will have happy wife. 
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