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Originally Posted by ILG
One thing that happened to me and I think happens to many who are hurt in the UPC is that the hurt is never validated. It is always diminished, blamed on you and you are told to "get over it". When this happens, true healing can never take place because it amounts to denial of the problem. The real problems are never admitted to and dealt with so, in order to retain a person's sanity, they often leave.
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The bottom line is that it is up to the hurt to be healed those are percieved as those who hurt you(whether real or imagined) are not going to help you get healed. I am determined to be well emotionally so I cannot allow myself to remain hurt. I have the power to get well through all God provides. Sadly some folk relish in being hurt it is their excuse to be miserable and spread it to others.(not in anyway implying anyone here is doing this but it is a fact.)
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