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I believe babies are born asexual. Boy babies aren't attracted to girl babies or other boy babies. They are attracted to their mother, most likely!
I do believe every human has a preposition to attraction one way or the other. It has not been scientifically proven that there is anything that influences this attraction. It is what it is. It is how God made us!
I don't believe one's natural attraction is a sin. It is acting out sexual activity outside of marriage where sin comes in. The adulterer or fornicator is no better than a practicing gay person. All is sin! They are all following the lust of the flesh instead of following godliness.
I know that some (maybe most!) don't agree with me, but that's OK! I know of too many man who were attracted to other men that have thought of committing suicide because they WANT to be heterosexual and be "normal". After crying and begging God to change them, they were unable to change. I had a friend ask me, " Do you really think I would CHOOSE to be like this, to suffer the ridicule of family and friends, to be the subject of gossip and cruel jokes, to be called horrible names?"
I use to think like most on this thread think on this issue. My heart was changed to more compassionate when a close friend revealed his issue to me. I KNOW this man loves God, and would love nothing else but to be "normal" so he would fit in.
In case you're wondering, NO, I'm not gay! I'm happily married with three children and six grandchildren!
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