1Ti 5:17.. ..Let
the elders that rule well be counted worthy of double honour, especially they who labour in the word and doctrine. (Not one Biblical qualification for a female Eldress)
1Th 5:12.. ..And we beseech you, brethren, to know them which labour among you,
and are over you in the Lord, and admonish you;
1Th 5:13.. ..And to esteem them very highly in love for their work's sake. And be at peace among yourselves.
Heb 13:7.. ..
Remember them which have the rule over you, who have spoken unto you the word of God: whose faith follow, considering the end of their conversation.
Heb 13:17..
..Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you.
Tit 2:15.. ..These things speak, and exhort, and rebuke with all authority. Let no man despise thee.
The one who rules in the home was also to likewise be over the church
1Ti 3:4.. ..One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;
1Ti 3:5.. ..(For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
I never said Paul insinuated his authority was equal to God's word (you are putting words into my mouth). God's calling and His Word is what gives a MAN of God his authority.