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Originally Posted by tamor
That I can understand.
I felt alot of the same sentiments in my first marriage. I tried so hard to keep things together and to "protect" my ex-husband's name and image.
Like you, I did not want to fall to the grass is greener syndrome, but I also wondered what it would be like when the girls were grown and gone. My situation just got to a point that the things I was trying to keep my girls from finding out were being exposed by others. I chose to remove them and myself from the situations that I had been living, and to try to provide a clean, christian atmosphere for them for their last few years at home.
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This is precisely why I have chosen not to have any children. This situation wouldn't be fair to them (or to me for that matter). Though, that is also one of the things that makes it difficult. Because If my situation changed, kids wouldn't be out of the question.
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