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Originally Posted by rgcraig
If we are discussing, then my two cents is that at some point you do have to forget along with the forgiveness.
What D4T is saying is true - what you go through changes how you react in the future and makes you see things with the wisdom of what you have gone through, but........you still have to let things go.
Not rehashing the things will help move past the hurts.
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Right, Renda - you can set a boundary as a way of "experienced wisdom", but if in that boundary you are still hanging on because of past pain - that's when it stops working for you.