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Re: A NEW Year-A NEW promise
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Originally Posted by Pressing-On
Right, Renda - you can set a boundary as a way of "experienced wisdom", but if in that boundary you are still hanging on because of past pain - that's when it stops working for you.
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This is an unhealthy boundary that takes energy to maintain. True boundaries are pretty natural but I think they are grown into rather than decided on the spot based on a theory of healing. True healing doesn't need a theory framework. It just is.
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