A lot of good stuff here. A couple of things have given me personal comfort over the years. One being that I try to realize that there is often a difference between the way things SEEM and the way they really are. Feeling, even men's feelings can be quite fickle depending on what one grew up with and the experiences thereafter. Two, some things/hurts we will NEVER get completely over. Some things we just have to get THROUGH day by day. It gets easier, but sometimes they just sneak up behind you and WHAM, right up side the head!!! Sometimes freedom comes from accepting that I may never get completely free from a struggle. His grace is sufficient and people need to be patient with me knowing that.