Sex Scenes

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Originally Posted by Socialite

I suspect not all men communicate their battles. Anyone have the Pyschology and Sociology studies handy? I've read them before. I think even Arterburn references them.

Human nature is human nature.

If sex wasn't appealing to men, it wouldn't be marketed and sold so heavily. It's the #1 industry. In ads, it's the #1 way to place product, deliver on innuendo, suggestive selling technique, etc. Some women sincerely believe their husband is exempt.

I read a book about a woman who lived undercover as a man for about a year. She said that she was regularly shocked by how men think. I have read about how men think for many, many years. I think that men are very visual and I do agree with quite a bit of what you are saying. I do believe that men have this sexual battle and women in general don't have it. I think all men have it whether it is covert or overt. I also believe I will never understand it. When I was younger I used to be offended by it but now I realize it is the make-up of a man. I think it is hard for women not to be offended by it. However, I think age and wisdom helps us see things a bit differently in that we begin to accept that others are different and have different battles....it's not necessarily better or worse battles (unless someone chooses to sin) but it is just different.