UPCI pastor resigns amid teen sex charges

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Originally Posted by ILG

What does willing mean? Completely understanding their own motives? Why they are doing what they are doing? Understanding the consequences?

Willingness is a very relative term when it comes to sex and molestation. Many pedophiles claim their victims are "willing".

If your daughter knew you put this out on the internet and blamed her, she would be close to destroyed. Please remove it.

Im not blaming her, thats the point you are missing. I am blaming... i dont know, i guess a society that doesnt see this as a problem.

Willing means exactly what it says. She was willing to do this. She was willing before him and even after him she was willing to have sex again and did. This is the problem I am addressing. Yes, some girls are manipulated or brainwashed, I understand and believe that, but I also know that many girls just see it as a part of their life or something that is perfectly ok to do.

And believe me , she is perfectly fine, she is 20 now and to this day she will tell you she done nothing wrong because it is her life and her perogative. Thats what you dont understand, your trying to protect someone who doesnt want your protection. They dont want you to call them the victim because they made the decision on their own. She refused to press charges, not because she loved him but because "it was my choice, I wanted to".