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Originally Posted by scotty
I don't know Renda. That is a question I have been struggling with. They are beautiful girls who get plenty of attention from boys, honestly they could pick from a list if they wanted to. While I do believe that is the issue with some I believe more so its just the world today. As you said perfectly in your post, they equate love with sex. Its ok nowdays, its just sex. And its everywhere, the music, tv, movies, internet and school. They believe they have all the knowledge, freedoms and rights an adult has. They dont believe they should be treated any differently.
But the affection is something they crave. My 13yr old is the "daddys girl". She is very affectionate and loving and always has been. Then boys came along. When she has a boyfriend I rarely see her and have to stop her to get a hug. When she doesnt have a boyfriend she is at the door when I get home and will not pass by me without stealing a hug or just come downstairs and sit in my lap and talk. She knows I am here for her, but when she has a boyfriend then I'm not needed in the equation. So really , I dont know..... I just dont know.
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Sorry you are having to go through this and I think people are misunderstanding you in this thread, but you know from experience that this could just as easily be one of your daughters we are talking about here.
I'm sure you'd sucker punch the dude that took advantage of your daughter, but you are seeing another side that some aren't.
Hang in there and love those girls and do all you can to help them. I'm so glad that my children are married. However, now I have a granddaughter to worry about. The influence that surrounds them is disgusting.
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