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Re: Sex Scenes
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Originally Posted by rgcraig
That's a good way to put it. My son and his wife are going through a study at their church - "Love & Respect"......very good. They talked about how visual a man is and some of the wives didn't have a clue. One of the wives asked her husband, "so what do you think when you look at a woman?" The answer was like you said.......
"If I see an attractive woman and (for lack of a better term) "I'm satisfied at home" then it's no more than a glance and I don't think anything. However, if it's "been a while", then I might look with more sexual thoughts.
So.......woman need to understand that and do their part in the marriage too!
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Without placing too much blame for any person's choice to be unfaithful, I agree with this. Any person who commits adultery has been drawn away of their OWN lust, however a healthy sex life in a marriage is intended to protect against temptation according to I Corinthians 7:5. Men and women are BOTH instructed to render "due benevolence", and men need to be concerned with keeping their wives happy, too.
I think it was Dr. Phil that said something along the lines of, "If the sex is good, it's only 10% of the marriage, but if it's bad, it's 90%."
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