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Originally Posted by rgcraig
That's a good way to put it. My son and his wife are going through a study at their church - "Love & Respect"......very good. They talked about how visual a man is and some of the wives didn't have a clue. One of the wives asked her husband, "so what do you think when you look at a woman?" The answer was like you said.......
"If I see an attractive woman and (for lack of a better term) "I'm satisfied at home" then it's no more than a glance and I don't think anything. However, if it's "been a while", then I might look with more sexual thoughts.
So.......woman need to understand that and do their part in the marriage too!
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Respectfully, I think this is where women miss it. I'm glad they are concerned about fulfilling needs, because that could be a big one. But you ask the women who have been cheated on. Not all were slothful wives who didn't "take care" of their husbands. It came down to bad habits, careless habits, and built-up fantasies that projected themselves into looks, then "innocent" flirting, then intense flirting and then.... well, that's just how it goes.
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