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Originally Posted by rgcraig
Well, I have a few years on you - - 54 years old - - was married 24 years and had a husband that found interests somewhere outside his committment, so I could bore you with all the details or you could just understand that experience is the best teacher.
I think many are missing this very important part:
"In one of the e-mails, my friend's husband said to his ex-girlfriend that she had been remarkable when he knew her, and felt she was probably even more amazing today".
This isn't your normal - can't wait to see how your life's been since HS graduation, meet your husband and see your kid's pictures.
He's opened a door with that one sentence. How the ex-girlfriend replied will determine the next step.
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Experience is the best teacher and that's why I asked you to share
And I read that part about the compliment quite clearly and thought it was a red flag also. Didn't change my opinion of how to handle the situation though.